Comparison and Manifesting
Every single element of Comparison Free Club is designed to help you live wholly and fully as yourself and work towards achieving every milestone and thing unique to your heart’s desire. Whether that’s an experience, a possession, relationship, environment - all of the things that make up the life that YOU want.
Our Core and indeed foundational principles of the club membership are supporting you in building your self-worth, self-confidence and self-focus no matter how your comparison shows up for you.
It might be comparing to other people…
Comparing to your past self…
Or comparing to an idealised version of yourself…
Your comparison is an indicator you have work to do to feel enough and to feel whole.
Let me spell it out...
In the areas you have high self-worth and you do feel enough, you will tend not to compare.
In the areas that you have low self-worth and you don’t feel enough, you will feel inferior and you will tend to compare in that area.
So, when you are comparing it is important to excavate the reasons why you don’t feel enough as you are right now. Why are you feeling closed off? Why do you feel that person, that past self, or that ideal self are somehow better than you?
This is absolutely key to manifesting because ultimately when we have high self-worth in an area - we feel enough - manifestations come easily.
But where we don’t feel enough, there is work to be done on our self-worth and manifestations don’t happen, can be slower or can feel complicated to bring in.
That’s what makes manifesting looks so easy for some people, because it is.
For example, in my relationship life I never really had trouble attracting partners that wanted to commit. After a few long term relationships, I met my husband very easily and although our relationship has absolutely had its ups and downs, I don’t have a story around relationships being hard - that’s not one of my beliefs or stories.
But when it comes to professional success and alignment with that financial return, that’s a whole other matter. It’s in THIS area where I’ve had to work at consciously raising my self-worth and feelings of being enough to believe there is a different way. I have had to look at and rewrite lots of stories in this area.
It’s in that area I’ve felt like I’ve most been chasing and striving in order to catch what I want the most. Even look at my body language - the grabby weird energy coming through! More on energy in a bit!
The thing you’re chasing is the thing you are trying to attract or manifest the most, but you don’t need a bigger trap to go and catch it, you need a bigger container to stand and receive it. You don’t need a stronger grip to cling on, you need a more open palm to receive.
That’s the principle of living comparison free. It’s also the principle of manifesting.
Head to the next video for more on my experience of manifesting and what I know to be true, from having done this since before it was cool.